She acknowledges I've changed and I'm unrecognizable in a good way
If you're asking her if she sees changes, that is adding pressure. If you're doing this, I would advise you to stop. Have you seen R2C's posts about attraction?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.