Originally Posted by AnotherStander

I wouldn't ask her anything, just sleep in the bed. If she complains then listen and validate, but stand your ground that you're sleeping in the bed.

"I'm sorry my snoring bothers you."

"Then you'll sleep on the couch?"

"Heh heh! No I'm sleeping here."



Love it! I need to think more like that! Makes the point in a very assertive way! And quite a 180 from Mr. Nice guy!


Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48