I'm going to ask for her to sleep on the couch tomorrow night since she has the problem. Nicely put, and I'm going to use those words. That level of assertiveness would also be a 180 for me.
I wouldn't ask her anything, just sleep in the bed. If she complains then listen and validate, but stand your ground that you're sleeping in the bed.
"I'm sorry my snoring bothers you."
"Then you'll sleep on the couch?"
"Heh heh! No I'm sleeping here."
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Unfortunately this trip was planned before she announced the separation. In two days we move on to another city and she wants to have it so one kid sleeps with an adult.
Ahhh yes. After BD my XW found a thousand reasons that she HAD to sleep with one of the kids. I imagine that's what's going on, it's an excuse for her not to sleep in the same bed as you.
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I really feel now that unless she can make enough changes (so far minimal) my needs need to be filled elsewhere. In other words she can't satisfy what I now need in a relationship.
If that's the case then so be it. Just make sure you do something to break the pattern next time!
