Even if it is cake eating, I think Curtis should stay strong and do what's right for the kids.
100% agree.. But he also needs to look out for himself at the same time, to ensure he can carry on being the best dad he can be... We all have the same background ( to a degree ) here and we all know how these WW mess with our heads.. Its obvious from Curtis's posts that his WW has no limits on cake eating, and the impact it has on him.
He needs to stay strong, but not let the WW impact on his health / decissions / state of mind.. And i personaly think the best way to do that is to try and limit the damage the WW can do we setting boundaries and stop her cake eating / abusing his good nature - things which she has done in the past, and have affected Curtis.. The best way to stop this is to not let her actions impact / control you.
Curtis, like i mentioned on one of your posts, reducing the contact will also help you with detachment. You can then focus on your children and not what she is doing.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
