Based on this then I retract my previous post for now. Stop all pressure and pursuit for now. Let some time go by.
D the thing is that my W said that stuff too. I have a screen shot of her online dating profile (complete with a picture!) where she talks about how she is still married but she is done with the marriage. That she can't start dating yet but wanted to see what was out there, that she will be dating in the future once the D was done. In the meantime she was enjoying my company, watching TV with me, etc. 6 weeks after she created that profile, she was back committed to the MR. It can happen, but she has to come to that realization herself. There is nothing you can do to fix it.
Steve, why do you think your wife recommitted to the MR so quickly? Is there any information there that we can glean from this?
