Curtis,

I cannot get my head around why any mother would send that type of message..

If you can work the full custody thing ( with work etc ) jump at the chance. I dont think it will be plain sailing for the children, as in their head they will probably see that there mum doesnt want them etc, but thats out of your control - Just be the best dad you can for them...

But at the same time, is it futher cake eating from the WW.? .. ie get you to take the custody while she has her fun...

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she decides she wants to see the kids today.. Not a problem, ill go round the house and ride the horse and see them then... when it suits ME... the leave you to sort the food, clothes, washing, baths, homework, schools runs... and shes off to OM54 or OM55...

If you were to consider this, i would consider strong boundaries ( which you need to enforce ) relating to as and when she visits.. in relation to both the children and the horse.. Otherwise its all on her terms as per usual.


Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.