W: And...there is something, won't talk about so please don't ask, that has revealed to me my inability to be a decent human being. I can still help as needed but wondering if for now...if better that kids have limited exposure to me.
Curtis, are you OK with full custody? If so then you might reply with something like "W, if you are asking if I am willing to take full custody then yes I will. I think we need to draw this up and both sign it as an agreement just so there's no confusion going forward. Please let me know what you are proposing as far as your visitation." Then like Steve said, DOCUMENT it all. Whether your W knows it or not, this will mean EVERYTHING to the court in the D. If you have a written agreement and she changes her mind later, but you can produce the the above text she wrote you plus the written agreement, then she's toast. DO NOT tell her you are saving all this, let her implicate herself and just quietly take screen shots and such to document it. I don't remember if you have a L but if not, you may want to retain one to get prepared.
