Need help, W just texted.

W: Do you think this 2/3/2 schedule is too difficult for kids (and us). For example the socks this morning, camp shirts... S8’s I cannot find, and just the back and forth.

I thought she was going to push for each of us keeping the kids for a full week and I was going to respond as follows.

H: Any back and forth is hard on all of us. I want what is best for the kids.

Then she texted again.

W: And...there is something, won't talk about so please don't ask, that has revealed to me my inability to be a decent human being. I can still help as needed but wondering if for now...if better that kids have limited exposure to me.

Haven’t responded to anything yet.


Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20