If he decides to meet the OW in person, this is what I plan on saying...
H: "I plan to go meet her." Me: "I cannot stop you. You can do what you want. Be prepared to find somewhere else to live if you follow through. I cannot allow you to disrespect me or our children by meeting your affair partner."
Not sure what he will say, but last time he said, "okay, I won't go." I'm not sure if by him asking me if it's a cry for help and an excuse to tell the OW "my wife said no?" I don't get him telling me he is going to do it.
Anyone have a clue or can translate why he would bother to tell me?
