I am away for my kids dance competition. There is literally only a handful of fathers here. I have also been so dedicated to my family, why doesn’t she see that.
I'm sure she sees that you are a great father to the kids. Unfortunately that doesn't equate to her being attracted to you. It was the same for my XW, she raved about what a great dad I was even after S and D. Unlike a lot of WAS's, she never did lose respect for me. Anyone that asked she always told that she respected me very much, I even heard her say it when she didn't know I was listening. She respected me, she loved me, she thought I was a great parent, she enjoyed the sex. But she didn't want to be married. It is damned tough to wrap your head around that. Yet that was my situation, and it is yours. There is no figuring it out.
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Tosmile for someone who is new to here I don’t know how you do it? I just feel like crying this morning. Thank god my son doesn’t perform till later.
Then find a private place and cry. However long it takes you to grieve and recover is how long it takes. It may take me 9 months and someone else 2 months and you 2 years. There is no right or wrong, it takes what it takes. Let it happen.
