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sorry-That is a difficult situation-

I would consider asking the L for advice to see if anything at all-can be done
Im sure you probably have done that-

I forget his back round, but I know he like many affair partners has a dark one

I would just research and keep a close eye or try talking to XW and keep communication open with the kids


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H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
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