WH and/or MLC? New to forum

[97Hope]

Oh wow. I understand. 2 years for me August 5th. I haven't set a time limit on my situation because I'm not sure where I'll be and I know I never would have made it this far by setting myself up like that.

My H is in the same canoe. He went to IC for about 5 weeks and gave up because they didn't know what to talk about. ugh. He's no further along (from outward appearances) than when this started.

I stand for many reasons, sometimes I'd like to quit and run away, but I'm so glad I am where I am now emotionally. It really is true that either R or D - we will be better.

I have never felt the desire to date. Only recently found a man attractive but didn't do anything with it. I'm a little jealous, TBH - the thought of a R with anyone else still makes me want to vomit.