Well that was interesting. I decided to see a psychologist to work on me. The entire discussion was about my wife and how he doesn't believe it's a MLC and that the honest truth is she just wants out of the marriage. He didn't buy the issues with affair, money spending, tattoos, her thoughts of going crazy, massive depression symptoms, the complete coldness, change in personality etc.

He told me to confront her and just ask her point blank what's up and do you want in or out. Don't think I'm going back. [censored] cause now he makes me think about her just wanting out with zero reasoning or desire to work on marriage, just wants to be single. Geez