Hi Nyla,

The first few months when my H first left I would read over his emails a hundred times, picking them apart thinking does this mean that and that mean this?

I was reading far too much into his messages and to be honest, wasted too much of my time doing so.

It’s exhausting. I agree with Peace, continue as you are. It’s so much more attractive than pursuing.

Allow him to carry on with his journey while you get on with your life. His relationship with OW has to run its course and I personally believe will run it’s course quicker now they are living together, rather than the excitement of ‘courting’.

No one knows what’s going on in his head, even he doesn’t.

Dig deeper, you are doing great.