So so new to this :(

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Nyla

I would notice his behavior but try not to get it too much in your head-

A DB coach once said to me if something you are doing is bringing him closer(detaching) then continue
if it pushes him away then try something else

Whatever you are doing( letting go) may seem attractive to him

Your showing yourself and he sees it --that you are a strong confident woman
who will move on
so as you continue on your healing journey..be polite with your limits and continue

Nothing you say or do can really snap him awake if he is in MLC
BUt a confident person is very attractive

He can also see that he is probably still not happy but he cant figure it all out
in the beginning many MLCer will linger a while before they get pulled out to sea-

all you can do is watch and wait and heal yourself and your children as you let him g0

I know it is hard-you are doing great

((((Hugs))))