Well, picked up my 4 year old today. Wife said he asked for me, so even though its not one of the 4 days I get him per month (here in medieval southern Greece) I was glad to have him. I usually get him on freebies like this whenever she deems fit. I take the crumbles as I spend quality time with the little one.

Today he asked me when are we going to go for vacation as a family.
I dont know what to respond to this. Any input welcome.
I dont know if the W is putting words into his mouth or if he genuinely wants to see us as a unit on vacation.
He has understood that we live in separate homes (but every so aften he asks me "Why did we move out of the house dad? - THis kills me every time, as I dont know what to tell him there too)

She has dug a hole in me and I am finally getting on my feet. But what about this vacation thing now??

puzzled

B.D in December 2018
Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019
Divorced May 2019
H (me) 49
W (her) 29