Hell yeah gekko! I can appreciate the idea to call BS. I’m in a pretty similar situation where I found no evidence but had suspicions. I would love the chance to call her out if she does indeed have a new man that was “just a friend”. I’m sure you would hear about it from your kids if someone was coming around to the house. A little different for me as S is too young. Glad to hear you are focusing on yourself and kids! I’m sure you are having a good time!