Hey Steve, hope all is well up in NYC. Have you put away your sweaters yet? Haha just kidding.

I'm unsure how to respond to helping her, but if NC is what you want to do then it doesn't fit the bill. I'd bet the old Steve, before you got married, wouldn't be helping girls who weren't interested in him with passion projects. I'm thinking this is indirect pursuit, what do you think?

As for the attraction thing, your mind is tricking you. It wants what it can't have. The law of diminishing returns applies in your love life. I think you know how to make this work in your favor.

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Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.