Originally Posted by Wolfman
Question for everyone. While we are away for the week how do I handle down time? I want to be with my kids but I don’t want her to think I want to be with her. 2 if I keep too much distance then I feel like she will day I don’t want to be with my kids. With her she always twists things and finds the negative. Thanks!!



H:"I am going to go get ice cream. Anyone want to join me?"
Kids:"YES!!!"
H:"I am leaving in 5 minutes"


Wife can decided to join you or stay back. Either way you are fine with her decision. Same with kids. be fine if they say yes or no.



Ice cream, the pool, the mall, the park, the beach, the movies, mini golf, whatever


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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