Steve85, As you know I have been reading through your situation threads, and I came across many posts about you focusing on self-differentiation. Would you mind sharing with me what you have read and done in this area throughout your journey? I really feel like I have lost my identity as an individual throughout my marriage. Once we moved in together, she became my life whenever I wasn't at work. Then once we had kids, my identity became a husband and a family man. Now after the BD, I feel like I have lost my identity. I think that understanding the work you or others here have done to work on self-differentiation would really help me.
