Welcome to the forum. Sorry you're here. I too wonder if my H situation is MLC or other. (see my thread for details). Not anywhere close to your situation. Reading has been helping me cope and journaling here mostly, has been good. Of course, GAL helps. Anything to get your mind off things you can't control.
Regarding helping H get a new cell. One side of me says, hell no, let him figure it out for himself. Don't offer to do it. And the other side thinks get him set up, but take him off the plan. This situation has been going on for 2 years. He needs to figure out a few things on his own.
These two links helped me. And I have quotes all over to remind me to be patient & strong. Reading and rereading & rereading.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
