(((Yail)))... what a beautiful experience you had in Italy!!! I am so happy for you. It is the silver lining in the LBS cloud that hangs over so many of our heads. Glad to hear your cycle of grief is lessening and you can feel yourself healing. You have such amazing insights and words of wisdom for others on the board, it does not surprise me. I agree with you... the non-response to your Happy Birthday tells me all is not well in you W’s world. But...you cannot spend your time wondering about it...she needs to figure things out for herself. Love your ToDo List!!! Super inspiring...just like you. (((HUGS)))