Also, this is your first post?? I'm not sure you're helping IHC here. Furthermore, no one has ever said not to protect your own self interests in DBing. We tell LBSs all three time to lawyer up. My guess is that your DBing efforts were half hearted attempts to manipulate your WAW and she say right through it.
So start your own thread and tell us your story.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018