I’m glad you made it through the anniversary. Zero acknowledgement is a pretty good sign that relationship talks are off the table for a while - so well done on your part. Keep busy and converse when that somewhat normal wife reappears.
I do agree with you, the enabling friends are a pain - I don’t like their view point either. You know you cannot control what they say or what W chooses to hear. Those friendships have to run their course as well. Remain the better choice, and be a man only a fool would leave.
Bpd, you do have the gift of time, continue wisely investing in you. That has a great rate of return; you really cannot loose.
Stay strong and keep moving forward,
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
