Hope... I think you are absolutely doing the right thing and that moving away from the memories into a place that is just yours will do you a world of good and be a giant step in your journey towards detachment and a new R...whether that be with a new and improved H or some other lucky guy you have yet to meet. Embrace the discomfort you feel...it means you are heading for a change...a new life...a new you. Try to think of it as an adventure and an opportunity. That’s what I’ve been doing and it has really helped me. The ink is almost dry on my divorce papers and my STBXH is marrying his OW next July apparently. It barely bothered me when I found out but had it been six months ago, I would have been devastated. That’s why GAL and 180s are so important...for you. Good luck!!! You can do this!!!
