I shall have both lamb and lipstick thread 6

[97Hope]

Big giant hugs, Alison. I'm so glad to log on and read a good update from you!!!

I love how you aren't getting involved in his IC stuff. My H would tell me about his and it just frustrated me and made me want to get involved and tell him why he wasn't getting better!!

I found it helpful to read articles about grief. Sometimes knowing what we are going through emotionally better equips us to navigate/manage it.

I'm glad to read that you no longer want to placate him!!! Cross off the C in CAGD!!

I'm finding myself thinking about you, Dilly, Blu, Goddess and all our friends here and taking comfort and encouragement knowing we are all walking through this together. I also use our group here to check myself when I want to do a counter-DB action. lol. Accountability is a good thing!!

All my best to you. Stay strong <3