IHC, maybe you've always looked for the wrong thing.

Between my exgf and my wife I've learned something that I wish I could go back and apply. And that is that for so long I was hung up on looking for someone I was crazy about. When in reality I should have been looking for someone that was crazy about me!! Sure they may not have been the most gorgeous woman ever, but I now in my more experienced age realize that looks are fleeting. I should have gone for one of the girls that would have given a kidney to be with me.

There is one girl in particular I often think about. She spent 7 years trying to win me over. She didn't give up until I got married. I think I would have been happy with her. I think she would have bent over backwards to make sure I was happy. But I was putting priority on the wrong things.

Maybe you've always been the dumpee because your priority was on the worst things too.

Last edited by Steve85; 07/05/19 04:01 AM.
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