Feel your pain destroyd. If they don’t get through it I think we’re better off without them.
Just wanted to document a strange interaction today when W came over to pick up S. She typically just waits in the car and texts me asking to bring S out. But today she parked and came to the door. She came inside and said hi to the dogs which was very strange because multiple times after BD she expressed how much she hates our dogs, one of which was her idea to get. She also said “I was at the store and thought of you so I got you this drink”. This was something she did frequently when our R was good but that stopped around BD. She made some comments about how the house looks like a frat house now with a bunch of jerseys and other sports things on the wall. I got a good laugh out of this. We chatted for a few and it was pretty pleasant without any disrespect. I then loaded our S into her car. As I was walking away she said “please be safe tonight and don’t drink and drive”. This is the first time since BD that I feel she has expressed concern for me.
I’m not reading into it and not believing anything she said, but it was strange. She did and said things that she did when our R was good. Maybe this is her just throwing me breadcrumbs. Maybe it was her pursuing after my brief businesslike visit with her yesterday. Only time will tell. Weird day though forsure. Thanks all.
