Originally Posted by dillydaf
There's nothing so good for your self-esteem as overtaking much younger people than you running up a brutal hill smile

I still haven't decided on the holiday, I don't want H to come but I could probably tolerate him for a weekend for ds2's sake if I have to, but I will be the one deciding where to go and what to do and I won't be making plans based around H.

Hey Dilly glad to see you’ve had a good couple days! I have a physical fitness test twice a year with the military; I’m nearly 40 and trust me I let those 22 year olds that I beat know who beat them! So good for you to get after it on the hills!

When I read your statement about your holiday; I think you already answered your own dilemma. You said “I don’t want H to come”. Nevermind anything else, tolerating someone isnt what you do on a holiday. Spend it how you want with whomever you want.


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