I cant say I have seen any red flags but it’s still early. He likes me so much - almost like a fantasy crush and that can be scary cause I worry about when those feelings get interrupted by reality. I actually keep telling him about all my flaws!! But it certainly is fun getting to know him. We are both pretty analytical. He’s more of the extrovert and I’m used to a bit more independence and alone time - which is refreshing to me in some ways because of my past. I’m used to being the clinger with ex husband or the initiator with ex bf (he was either lazy or insecure or passive) so being with an extrovert that takes initiative feels like the perfect scenario. It’s a turn on. So far, I like him more then I have ever liked anyone.
Our only difficulty is logistics. We are on opposite schedules and meeting up requires a lot of effort which we are both putting in. But it will make sleepovers or trips away impossible and I’m not sure how to navigate that. It does keep the pace a bit slower which is probably better long term. But we are certainly not going to introduce kids, so how do we carve out time?
