Stop telling her you love her bc right now it just reminds her that she feels differently.
Protect yourself financially ASAP. You giving her money won't win her back and actually deepens her disrespect for you.
$100 divorce? Highly doubt it. You need to take a couple free consultations with lawyers around you.
It's not too late but if she said it's over you need to accept her decision for now. She's clearly hurting and confused. Read all those links a few times. Read other stitches here. Be prepared for the affair to rear its ugly head. Your W is reading from the same script as the others. Tell us some more details like ages, how long together, kids, other details.
Sorry you're here.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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