I would love to see the stats on busted divorces if at the bomb drop the lbs said "lol oh you want to leave me? Well that's not what I want but ok. Do you need help packing your bags?
I know someone who did exactly that. He's a no-nonsense police officer. His W said she was done, he immediately showed her the door. She left, went and got a dragonfly tatt that said "she's finally free" in Latin and 6 months later was right back at home with him and has been there ever since (that was about 7 years ago). 6 months is an astonishingly short amount of time, what he did different was zero pursuit behavior. He told her buh bye and let her go and went about the business of living his life. It takes a lot of us much longer to get to that point of detachment unfortunately.
