Letting her know we won't be friends--I have been wanting to say this to my wife as well, but I didn't know if it is part of DBing. I see know way that I could be friends with someone who abandons me. There is no way I could envision myself being friends after the pain she has put me through. Do you think I should tell her this? If so, how would you say it?
The reason why I want to say this to her is to tell her that there will be consequences to her walking away. I would hope that this knowledge could convince her to work hard to fix our marriage, because otherwise their will be consequences and these consequences will negatively affect her, me and especially our kids.
