I'm a little confused by most of these points ? Apart from point (6) to me they look way too much like you are still way too attached. Nothing you have tried so far has worked, yet you have spent time and effort listing ( in my eyes ) listing items that will probably make no difference / are pursuit... Time and effort that could have been used on GAL, time with the kids etc.

Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.