The aftermath - OrangeK

[OrangeK]

Update:



I ended up filing a motion to have my child support paused or cancelled due to EXW not providing care.
Waiting on court to rule on motion.

S4 has been up with my parents for 2 weeks now.
EXW has called to talk to him 3 times in 2 weeks, no video chat, no requests to come visit him or make arrangements to pick him up for a day or two.



I call him daily. Send messages and video chat as often as possible.
I drove the 4 ½ hours to spend the weekend with him, took Yesterday off work so I could have an extra day with him.



I have had it. I have been giving benefit of doubt that she will want to actually parent.

His behavior has improved 10 fold since being with my parents.


She has no bedroom for him. Hasn’t taken him to a single Dr apt or dentist or mental health apt since we split up in Oct of 2017.

Shes still getting my child support money and isn’t even paying for a single facet of S4’s care.

She has introduced him to 2 romantic partners in 1.5 years, and has family and boyfriends do more of the pickups and care for S4 than she does.

She lies to me about our childs whereabouts, behavior and her intentions on caring for him.



Enough enough. I Am going to be petitioning for temporary full guardianship or full custody.