So last night during webchat didn’t go well. She wants me to get rid of any privileges I won legally, as well as let her have our son this holiday on my day. I said no to both, so she got really really mad.
I offered to let all 3 of us spend the evening together, which she declined.
I didn’t think I really engaged, but I didn’t pull back as fast or as much as I should’ve, so the situation just escalated itself into an argument. She still doesn’t think we are in MC, but rather coparenting. She still has SO MUCH ANGER AND HATRED towards me 4 months out and I just don’t understand it.
I just don’t know what to do anymore. An outsider would look at our conversations and see that I am being rational and thoughtful and she is just not. She told me that she just doesn’t feel good at all when I’m around her and her life [censored]. Seriously?!? I haven’t really spoken to her or seen her in 3-4 months, so how in the world can she feel that way?!?
I feel she is being very selfish, as it’s her way or the highway. This person is just not the person I fell in love with and married. She is a shell of her former self.
