That is amazingly frustrating and kind of scary! He is doing his own thing and his phone is off for a reason. I do hope you hear from him that he is safe. His family clearly isn't a priority for him in the way it should be.

There is nothing you can do but self soothe and care for yourself. Look after the kids, go take a hot shower, relax, eat something. Play a game, call a friend and catch up.

Sorry that you are in such a tough spot. Hugs.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
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