Hi Sandi - same sitch as Ben, would love your additional perspective (you had posted here and I replied, curious if you have anything to add):

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2853370&page=4

Apologies to HrtHsbnd for the distraction

M(35), W(35), D(4)
M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019
W moved out Aug 13
House sold Sept 25
Papers signed Nov 15
Divorce finalized Dec 12