Sara, sorry to hear things aren't going better. Reading your posts I think your marital expectations are completely reasonable, and I also feel you have communicated them effectively and your H just chooses not to concern himself with what you want and need. He sounds very selfish. I'm afraid it may just be a matter of time before he engages in another A. The only thing I can think of to tell you is pull back from him and pull back HARD. Give that some time and see if he starts pursuing again. Try to get out and GAL more too. Good luck!
