Thanks Alison. What you said makes sense. Unfortunately I dont know her so any offering from me would seem creepy. But in my mind I know what she is going thru, what all of us here went thru.
I remember the calming effect the veterans here had on me when I would come in here all panicked.
Replies starting with:
" Expect this to happen now..." " Dont believe anything they say.." "Protect yourself.. " " You have been given the gift of time.."
helped me immensely.
B.D in December 2018 Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019 Divorced May 2019 H (me) 49 W (her) 29