That was very helpful and I definately appreciate your responses to my questions. I'm pretty sure it is mlc. I am working on myself and staying detached. I only speak to w when absolutely necassary.
I am seeing forward progress in her mlc though.
Here is why. First, there has been no angry spewing in months. She seems calm.
I see her reconnecting with the kids. In fact as I look at her relationship, I'm not sure she ever completely disconected from them. She acted very irrersponsibly but never completely turned her back on them.
I see her also talking to her pre mlc friends more. She has begun using a social media account that she stopped using when she entered replay. This is an acct that has her married last name (mine). My therapist says that's big.
Her online ea seems to be falling apart... At least publicly.
She has regained the weight she lost at the begining of replay and has stopped working out obsessively.
When she does go places with the kids she sends them back in to say goodbye to me if they haven't.
I know that the road ahead is still long and bumpy. I understand that and I respect your opinion. I'm just seeing these things happening consistently and I'm somewhat confused when everyone says she's still in replay.
