Today I'm thinking of sending H an email, to update him on d3. Considering making this a monthly thing, as he'll be gone until November. It will be sent to his work email, as he will get it right away. Even though everyone else can read these emails, I'd like him to read it sooner than later, as it's been awhile.
When he left for work in mid April (BD in March), he asked that I not send him anything. I'm assuming he didn't want anything from me. He wasn't specific, (I didn't ask, I sat & listened) so I'm a little bit nervous in sending him an update on d3. Since he's been gone, other than sending her a short birthday video (end of May), he hasn't reached out to ask about her. This makes me sad.
Stupid question. Is it normal for someone in MLC not to ask how their children? Has anyone else experienced this? In a way, since none of his behavior is normal, I can see he might be shutting himself off from contacting us. Not sure why, and again, none of this is suppose to make sense to us, as it's his journey.
How do you handle your spouse not asking about your child/kids? She's only 3. I guess I just have to remember that my spouse is in crisis mode, and not himself. I love him dearly, and I except that he's going through a really hard time.
Excepting what is, is excepting what it is.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
