So just a quick update... things are going great with NG. We clique so well - mutual chemistry and anticipation. It is so much fun. He immediately went exclusive and told me no pressure for me to do the same - but I have no desire to date others right now. He’s very romantic and wants long term partnership. And he tells me how excited he is about me even though it’s so early. I feel the same. But am keeping things in perspective. I know that time is the only true revealer.
So different from ex bf and ex husband. Neither of them were as into getting to know who I am on a deeper level. Ex bf would just stop responding in a text in which I thought the conversation was still going. Ex bf was always negging me even in his compliments. Actually compared me to being like his favorite car but in the wrong color because of my hair coloring (he likes red heads) and then once he said the only thing he would change is my height (I’m 5’8) and I was thinking “my height???? He’s the short one. He should wish he was taller. “ the arrogance was unbelievable.
New bf is showing my pictures to his friends and family and makes me feel completely cherished. He’s really considerate and enthusiastic. I just can’t believe I wasted time on my ex husband who didn’t make time or effort for me or ex bf who was so critical and wasn’t even physically attractive himself. I think I was punishing myself with him. New guy is really attractive too and tall. (Those aren’t my priorities but it’s a nice part of it and really adds to the physical chemistry) And everything has been so comfortable and easy. I think we both just want to meet each other’s needs. I know how early it is too and I don’t want it to burn out .
