This is great to read. Something has changed in your updates recently -- it seems you are starting to create some space from him, setting firmer some boundaries for yourself, and thus you are detaching a bit. Consequently, It seems that he is noticing and treating you with more respect. I am also sensing that you are feeling better and more confident overall. ... I totally agree that both parents have to put their drama aside and put the kids needs first. As long as it is for the kids benefit only, then family time is not necessarily cake eating for him. Sounds like you both are able to do that. Bravo! ... Keep on this path and you will continue to see these positive results ...
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
