Midlife wife crisis8

[Ready2Change]

I would separate the "Money" from the "Seducing Wife back".

she has an appointment with the mortgage broker to refinance this way she can buy me out.....I can’t now because of money.

Ask her "Any way you can speed this up?" or "How can I help speed up the refi?" Enthusiastically support the refi.


Taking the kids to the lake with a jet ski...Can't beat that. I almost purchased a boat, but decided to get out of the rental into a bigger house. Now sure if that was wise or not. Missed the chance for water sports with kids at teeens.


Wolf,

Change the way you think about attracting wife back. Look here for Counter-intuitive ways to attract:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2061094#Post2061094

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