Married 27 years, together 30 Found out about his 18 month affair June 18 Did a fantastic amount of dancing about for 3 months whilst he pretended to want to save the M finally told him no more Sept 18 He lives alone whilst he and OW now set themselves up as a 'legitimate couple' Divorce petition issued by me awaiting his cooperation financial shennanigans slowly being revealed financial situation rapidly deteriorating can't extricate myself 3 fantastic adult sons 1 fantastic dog several fantastic friends and close family