Goddess: what happened before when you pulled back? Pretty sure you're cementing that you're plan B if you're encouraging him to come over and play happy families and then go back to his mistress. Shouldn't you be tripping out the door in a cloud of eau de goddess? By all means let him see what he's missing but that might have been too much... (says dilly who is seriously crap at this but can at least see it in others)