It is beautiful, thank you Hope I like the negative expectations, as an optimist I should practice that I think. And I have to practice the standing up for myself with the rudeness and the R talks, you're so right that after a certain stage validating their complaints probably just reinforces their thinking instead of moving on. Keep on keeping on, sounds like it's currently working for you x
I like the negative expectations, as an optimist I should practice that I think. And I have to practice the standing up for myself with the rudeness and the R talks, you're so right that after a certain stage validating their complaints probably just reinforces their thinking instead of moving on. 
