Originally Posted by Steve85
There is a difference in being friendly 'friendship is at the heart of any relationship, and once you get to the level of friendship-level meetups, it offers an opportunity to demonstrate the 180s and so on.' AND being friend-zoned! "I have no interest in being your friend".

So you have to walk that fine-line. If she starts talking to you about her latest dates with other guys, guess what?


Absolutely. I have zero interest in the latter. And I think she knows that.

Originally Posted by Ready2Change
If spouse is actively cheating on you and leaving you for an affair partner:
"I absolutely have no intention on being your friend"


My lady is my lover, not a friend. I have many friends, only one lover. There are many layers to attractions. Focus on being attractive to her. Even if that means not being her friend. Do not get put in the friend zone.


Well, call me naive, but I have zero evidence of an affair. But yes, at the point in which she is dating someone else, I have very little interest in being a Plan B and/or being around to witness it.


Me: 37, WAW: 32
T: 7.5, M: 2.25
NYC
BD: 5/19/19, S: 6/21/19