If spouse is actively cheating on you and leaving you for an affair partner:
"I absolutely have no intention on being your friend"


My lady is my lover, not a friend. I have many friends, only one lover. There are many layers to attractions. Focus on being attractive to her. Even if that means not being her friend. Do not get put in the friend zone.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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